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The 21st Century Network Marketer

newsletter issue 4

A Network Marketing Newsletter
March 2008
Issue 4

 

 

CONTENTS:

1.  GUEST ARTICLE

Marketing From Your Conscience

By Steve Pavlina

Do you ever find yourself dragging your feet when it comes to marketing your business?  Steve Pavlina shares some valuable insight into a possible cause for this and what you can do about it.

2. EDITOR'S VIEWPOINT

Network Marketing Success: Put Your Prospects First

By Liz Monte

This article, previously published in "MLM Woman" ezine, tells the tale of two fictitious network marketers and contrasts their recruiting styles.

3. EDITOR'S VIEWPOINT, PART 2

MLM Prospecting: Creating a Win-Win Outcome

by Liz Monte

Win-win is nearly always the most satisfying outcome in any human transaction. But achieving it requires some know-how.


GUEST ARTICLE

If you haven't yet discovered StevePavlina's blog, you're in for a treat. His subtitle is "Personal Development for Smart People."

Marketing From Your Conscience

By Steve Pavlina

Years ago I learned a simple yet powerful marketing secret: You must become so convinced of the benefits of your product or service that you feel you'd be unjustly depriving people by not doing everything in your power to get the word out.

I was infected by this attitude from Jay Abraham. Jay has an absolutely brilliant way of thinking about marketing. For example, if you're an accountant, and you're skilled at saving people money on their taxes, Jay might ask how much you save your average client. Say it's $500 per year. And then Jay would ask how much you charge. Say it's $200. Then Jay might take you through a conversation like this:

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EDITOR'S VIEWPOINT

Network Marketing Success:  Put Your Prospects First

by Liz Monte

Jane and Mary are both in network marketing.  (They're also both fictitious and are not intended to depict any real persons, living or dead.)  For the sake of this story, we'll assume they both possess equal talent, resources, and motivation.  However, their approaches to recruiting and business-building are quite different.

Jane is determined to enroll as many new business partners as possible into her organization each month.  So far she's been pretty successful at it.  In the last year, she signed up 300 people, averaging twenty-five new associates per month and even winning her company's "Top Recruiter" award.

In looking at her organizational charts, however, she notices that the great majority of her new distributors aren't doing anything, and quite a few of them have even resigned from the company already.  She'll be lucky if she still has fifteen active people left in a few months.  And she'll be really lucky if any of them are duplicating what she's been doing.

Oh well, she thinks. Most people are lazy. I'll just work with the ones who really want to improve their lives. Meanwhile back to recruiting! After all, if the drop-out rate's going to be that high, I better get as many new people as I can to compensate for it.

Mary, on the other hand, has been averaging one or two new enrollments per month. She's been carefully screening and interviewing her prospects, making as sure as she can that they have the skills, resources, and attitudes they'll need to be successful. She takes the time to get to know them, learn what their needs are, and most importantly, find out if they really want to do what she does.  Above all, she wants to make sure her opportunity will be a good fit for her new business builders.

She also expects to do a lot of training and hand-holding with each person she accepts into her organization – at least during their first few weeks. And she knows this will take time.

 When Mary looks at her organizational chart, she feels very satisfied that nearly all of her recruits are still active.  In fact, many of them are successfully duplicating what she does and continue to enroll one or two qualified prospects per month. Consequently, thanks to the power of multiplication, her organization has grown in size to several hundred business builders over the last year. 

 It's quite clear in this story that Mary is trying to put her prospects' needs first, and Jane has other priorities.

 Now please don't think I'm about to start preaching some goody-goody philosophy of network marketing.  While I admit, I usually prefer kindness and generosity over greed while traipsing down the road of life, there's actually a very practical, down-to-earth reason for considering your prospects' welfare above your own…

 It's good for your business.

 After all, wouldn't you prefer to work with loyal, qualified people who stick with it?  (Emphasis on the words, "stick with it.")  It doesn't matter how many starter pack bonuses you earn in the short run, in the long run you'll never reach cruising altitude unless you have a lot of dedicated folks under you. And that doesn't happen unless you earn their trust and loyalty by showing them in a very authentic way that you care about their success. And of course, by teaching them how to be successful.

 And admit it.  Wouldn't it make life a lot more fun if you were building long-lasting personal relationships while you're building your business? 

 Giving your recruits what they need and want, thereby reducing your drop-out rate, is also good for the network marketing industry. Just imagine how many disgruntled ex-MLMers there are out there, telling everyone they know that network marketing is a rip-off and that it's impossible to succeed at it.  You know what a problem that creates.  If you would seriously like to change that image, join the Put Prospects First movement.

In summary, here are four things you can do to accomplish this:

1. Find out what your prospects' needs are and help them decide if network marketing will help fill those needs. If it won't, let them go.

2. Get to know your prospects well enough to determine if they have the skills, resources, and attitude necessary for success. If not, steer them gently in another direction. You'll be doing them a favor and they'll probably be grateful for your honesty.

3. Don't twist their arms or use any other form of manipulation to get them to sign with you. If they're not already genuinely enthusiastic, you've got a guaranteed drop-out on your hands.

4. After they've joined your team, take however much time they need for training and hand-holding. Commit yourself to their success.

By putting your prospects' needs before your own, you'll be building a stronger organization, giving the network marketing industry a better image, and creating some awesome friendships.

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LizMonte is the editor and publisher of this newsletter.


EDITOR'S VIEWPOINT, PART 2

Prospecting: Creating a Win-Win Outcome

by Liz Monte

In any endeavor involving other human beings, a win-win outcome is always the most satisfying and productive. This is the real reason we network marketers want to put our prospects first.  By doing so, we stand the best chance of creating a positive result for them and us.

What do we mean by win-win when it comes to finding new partners for our network marketing business? 

For the prospector (you), a win probably means acquiring a new business partner with the following attributes:  easy to work with, motivated, determined to succeed, reliable and accountable, upbeat, honest and hardworking, and so on.  Of course, you would probably also want your recruit to have some free time and enough money to get started.

For the prospect… well, we really don't know what a win would be for her, do we?  We could make an assumption and guess. We could assume that she just wants to make a lot of money. But what if we guess wrong?  What if her heart's desire is to help people and make a difference in the world.

The only way we can know for sure what's going through our prospect's head is to talk with her -- ask questions, listen closely to the answers, ask more questions, and do a lot more listening.

One word of caution, though:  When interviewing a prospect, it's very tempting to listen just until she mentions some problem your product or opportunity might help solve. And then… (sound of bugles) YOU'RE OFF AND RUNNING! Blabbing all about how wonderful your company is and how much she's going to LOVE what the products will do for her.

But telling why YOU think your opportunity is the greatest thing since sliced bread is not the goal.  The goal is to reach a win-win outcome, and there's more to it than just presenting your favorite features and benefits and assuming that's what your prospect wants, too.

If you're truly dedicated to win-win, your goal is to reach a deep understanding of what a win would be for her and then honestly assessing whether or not your opportunity would create that. 

If it's not a good fit, let it go.  Thank her for her time and move on.

On the other hand, if your opportunity looks like a match for her, go ahead and explain to her why you think so. Be sure to connect the dots between her specific problems and how your opportunity can address them.

Then she signs up, right?

Not quite. Actually, there's yet another critical step you both must take before reaching a  win-win outcome.

Recently, I started reading a book that really gets into the whole win-win strategy, The New Conceptual Selling by Stephen E. Heiman and Diane Sanchez. (Although it was written mainly for business-to-business salespeople, most of the principles the book lays out are applicable to network marketers, too.)

It describes three stages of the decision-making process. 

Stage 1: The decision-maker (your prospect) comes to a better understanding of the situation she's facing.  (This is where your question-answer dialogue helps her.)

Stage 2: The decision-maker explores options and solutions. (This is that other critical step I mentioned, and it's where many network marketers fall on their faces.)

Stage 3: The decision-maker puts it all together and picks the best option for herself.

Why do I say that many MLMers fall on their faces in the second stage? The answer is that we naturally want OUR option to be the only one the prospect considers. But the person sitting before us must be free to consider ALL her choices, or her final decision will never be satisfying to her. (By the way, this is a common problem with many salespeople, not just network marketers.)

Plus, people know when they're being pushed or manipulated. Throughout this whole conversation, you've been creating rapport and building trust. If you suddenly start pitching your solution as the only one, your prospect will close up again before your very eyes. She'll start talking about how she needs to think a few things over – and maybe she'll get back to you in a couple of weeks. Maybe. In other words, you just lost her.

Or if you do succeed in manipulating her into agreeing to your solution without giving her a chance to think about her other choices, she may feel buyer's remorse down the road and secretly resent you for it forever. That's certainly no way to begin a healthy business relationship, is it?

If you want to play a positive role in your prospect's decision-making process and achieve your win-win goal, you must make it totally clear to her, both in your words and in your actions, that you support her right to explore different options.

The good news is, if you truly understand her situation and genuinely believe that your opportunity is her best solution, and if you have effectively communicated why you think that way, chances are pretty good that your prospect will end up agreeing with you. And then you will get to enjoy that most treasured of all outcomes, win-win.

Your new business relationship will be launched in an atmosphere of mutual respect and commitment, with the positive expectation that it will continue indefinitely. You and your prospect will each get what you want, and you'll both feel terrific about your decisions.

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LizMonte is the editor and publisher of this newsletter.

 

 


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